Why does one fail whenever one tries hard to achieve success?

Have you ever experienced despair and frustration, started thinking about yourself because you are a failure or unlucky because you fail at everything? You try hard to find a job but can't find one, you start a project that fails, you look for love but can't find it, and so on, you lose hope in life and trust in your Lord.

I was a very diligent, intelligent and very famous student. I always got the final grades.in high school, l was studied along time to have the full degres. I would sleep for about a few hours, I was studyed day and night, remembering and keeping books, and solved any exam form available. Despite all this effort, I did not get the final grades. On university I entered the Faculty of Agriculture . My effect in studying was double so that I could excel and become a perfassor at the university. The same effort was with Same result

When I started studying for postgraduate studies, I know why I failed despite my effort. I learned how to avoid the reason for my failure and tasted success and excellence. So I want to talk about this important topic. To achieve wealth and success, you must know the reason for failure

Many people fail financially due to the constant fear of losing money. Financial freedom starts from the mind, so in this article I will reveal to you the answer to a question that confuses many people: Why fail despite hard work, perseverance, and the presence of a goal.

There is a fine line between ambition and obsession associated with fear. Do you know why intense desire leads to failure.

Why you get what you fear

There is an important rule you should know

📜 When you try with panic or extreme stress to reach your dream, your mind focuses on the thing that affects you the most and starts bringing more of it, which is your fear or failure. You are afraid of failure, you want to get rich, and you are afraid to live in fear. Your fear is greater than your dream

Have you ever felt that the faster you run towards your goals, the greater the distance between you and them? Do you know why your success requires a 'cold desire' instead of an obsession that burns through your effort?

There is a principle that I live by and apply in my life: live indifference owns life

The point here is not that you do not care about anything, but rather work and never think about the result and do not wait for it. It will come on its own

Have you ever noticed that there are two people who have the same level of education, the same social life, and the same circumstances, and they work in the same company, one of them works hard, takes the work of his colleagues, works for a long extra time, and flatters his superiors, and the second is a calm, intelligent person who only works what is required of him. This person lives his dream on the principle that he will collapse if he does not have this dream, so he sends a signal to those around him that he has despaired

While a calm, self-confident person is the one who receives more love, appreciation, status, and money than another hardworking person.

The first person is like a drowning person who moves his hands and feet with the maximum possible force, but unfortunately he moves in a way that makes him drown faster instead of swimming to survive

📜 know that opportunities attract someone who does have confidence and repel a desperate person. In other words, do without the thing and you will get it

The intense desire to reach your dream is fuel, but if this fuel is too much, the engine may explode and the result will be slowness, not speed

How to do the law of reverse voltage, the law of failure

The greater the desire, the more you activate a law called reverse effort, means you get the opposite of what you wish for or get what you fear. The more you try hard to reach something, the more it runs away from you.

You cannot gain financial freedom and dignity with the opposite effort

This is one of the most tragic stories I have seen that proves the existence of reverse effort and its impact

I met a woman whose husband is cruel and controlling. She cannot spend on herself and her children. She does not have the financial freedom to get rid of the power of this husband, so she decided to work online so that she could spend on herself and her children.

She thought about getting financial freedom first before getting rid of him. She worked hard in affiliate marketing and published affiliate links on every site day and night. When I spoke with her, she told me that during the course of 6 whole months, she did not She followed any product and did not achieve anything final. After a period of time, she asked her again about her conditions.

She felt bitter, hopeless, and extremely frustrated. Although she was able to obtain profits from the affiliate, the profits were non-existent and did not cover the cost of charging the Internet, which she used for months to publish affiliate links. Her husband's power increased after he was assured of her failure and her inability to free herself from him.

Although this story is very tragic and sad, it is conclusive evidence that what controls your thoughts and feelings is what you get.

This woman was working hard, in dire need of money, with a deadly desire to be free from a cruel husband, and a fear of failure. She was working, and these feelings were controlling her. The result was that her mind brought her more feelings that were strongly present within her.

📜An important rule: If your intense focus is on something and it was feeling fear there . your mind foucous with feeling fear because it is the strongest feeling

What is meant by the law of attraction is the opposite

The law of inverse attraction (I called the law of failure ) is a state in which you attract exactly the opposite of what you want, simply what are you feeling happen Not what you wish for.

Basic principle: Feeling is magnets (not words)

The reverse law of attraction works when there is a conflict between your conscious desire (I want money/I want love/I want happiness) and your hidden inner feeling (I am afraid of poverty/I am afraid of rejection

Rule: The subconscious mind always responds to the📜 "strongest feeling". If the feeling of "fear of failure" is stronger than "confidence in success", then you attract failure because you focus on it emotionally.

Reverse effort is not just about money, it extends to our relationships. How many women have sacrificed everything, given him their money and love, helped him become wealthy, abolished their personality, and become a shadow of their husband in order to ensure his love ?

She was working hard to 'please him', she was striving to get his love and appreciation for her but the real feeling that was overwhelming her was her feeling of deprivation, love and warmth, of appreciation.

She was striving hard to get them and She sacrificed everything, so the result was that she got what she felt was of the need for love and appreciation. The result?

He left to admire another woman who may not offer half of what the first offered, but she has one thing: confidence, peace, and independence."

This wife makes an "excessive effort" (sacrifice, self-cancellation, pursuit to please the husband) stemming from a hidden fear of loss or a desire to secure love.

* Result: This "emotional pressure" suffocates and alienates the other party. She made a tremendous effort to be loved, and the result was that she pushed love away.

"Give it up, you get it."📜

* A wife who "holds on" madly will be abandoned.

* A wife who is "self-sufficient" and values herself (without reverse effort) is the one everyone runs after

📜 * Excessive sacrifice = the message "I don't deserve love as much as I am, so I will pay the price in advance."

* The world (and the husband) treats us based on our evaluation of ourselves.

Why does reverse effort occur?

It occurs for three psychological and energy reasons:

* Send a "lack" message: Cravings (obsession) tell the universe and your subconscious mind: "I don't have this thing right now". Your mind continues to embody the state of "non-possession"

Creating "resistance": Excessive concentration creates nervous pressure. This pressure closes the creativity centers in your brain, so you make wrong decisions that lead to failure.

Pathological attachment: When you associate your happiness with the outcome, you become in a state of "psychological emergency", and the universal law says that things are attracted to the stable, not the disturbed.

Why does an obese person fail whenever he tries to lose weight

It happens when an obese person tries to lose weight but fails completely despite his strong desire to lose weight

This is the most well-known example of the inverse voltage law. The condition of an obese person who fails despite his intense desire to "lose weight" explains exactly why financial success escapes the "panicked" or result-related person.

1. Focus on the "problem" not the "solution"

A person who desperately wants to "lose" has his subconscious mind occupied all day with the word "obese" or "overweight".

He hates his current body and resists it fiercely. As "what you resist increases", his mind continues to limit his identity to the image of an "obese person".

The body remains on the defense, secreting stress hormones (cortisol) that store fat instead of burning it.

2. Deprivation breeds explosion

Craving causes him to follow very harsh regimes (such as a person who works day and night on his work).

The human soul rejects violent pressure. This deprivation generates tremendous psychological pressure that makes the mind search for a quick "reward".

It collapses in front of the first piece of candy and eats more voraciously, returning to the previous weight and more, which we call "bounce".

3. Waiting for the "balance" every day (the results trap)

Every hour he stands on the scale every morning.

If he does not find an immediate result, he becomes frustrated, and frustration is the first enemy of attraction.

He stops trying because he "feels" a failure before he achieves success.

The solution is not in a "harsh diet", but in changing the mental image:

How to break the law of inverse voltage (law of failure)

Instead of focusing on "I want to lose weight" (because it's a sentence that means I'm fat), he begins to meditate and imagine himself as "light, fit, and healthy". He feels the joy of fitness now.

* Letting go of the scale (giving up results): He decides that he will exercise and eat smart because he "enjoys" a healthy lifestyle, not because he is "waiting" for a certain number on the scale.

* Present self-love: When he meditates, he accepts himself as he is now. This acceptance ends the "emergency" in the body, so hormones begin to work normally and weight loss occurs with amazing smoothness.

Verbal affirmations are your path to failure

There is no happy person who repeats "I am happy" because he is really happy. So the person who always tells himself that he is happy is an unhappy person and his mind does not believe what his tongue repeats

These untrue assertions activate the law of inverse effort, which interacts with what you feel and attracts more of it to you

The subconscious mind has a "radar for honesty"; it doesn't hear what you say with your tongue, but rather feels what you "believe" deep down

The struggle between the "conscious" and the "inner"

When a poor person stands in front of a mirror and says, "I am rich," the following happens:

* Conscious mind: says "I am rich".

* Subconscious mind: He laughs sarcastically and says, "No, you're broke, debt is on you, and you're trying to trick me."

* Result: This conflict generates tension. Since the subconscious mind is thousands of times more powerful, it sends the body and the universe "lie" and "need" energy, and failure occurs

Happy person doesn't say "I'm happy"

Happiness is "a feeling and a state that a person experiences" and not "an action plan".

* A hungry person is one who talks about food

* A person who lacks value is one who talks about his greatness.

Why do affirmations fail?

* Creating internal conflict: When you say "I'm a millionaire" and you don't have the money , you're creating a "lie" oscillation. The subconscious mind rejects this information, which increases your feeling of poverty and inferiority.

* Focus on "need": The urgency in asking for something is a blatant admission that it does not exist. The Law of Attraction works on "what you are," not "what you want." If you "want" so badly, you are in a state of "need," and need attracts need

When is the Law of Attraction effective?

The true law of attraction is not based on what you "say," but on what you "oscillate" (i.e., your stable feeling). Here comes the role of meditation to solve the dilemma

* Instead of "saying,"I am successful

Meditation does not make you repeat, "I am successful", but rather it makes you reach a state of stillness in which the "fear of failure" disappears. When fear disappears, your innate competence emerges. You are not here to claim success, but to "allow" it to happen.

* Switching from "chasing" to "magnetism":

When you meditate and detach from the outcome , you terminate the "reverse law of attraction." At this moment, the real attraction begins. Not because you said words, but because you became an "unfazed" person. Financial opportunities are always attracted to a stable mind.

* Gratitude rather than wishful thinking:

Confirmations say: "I want to be..". Meditation and gratitude say, "I am grateful for what I have now." When your mind feels abundant in what you have, it opens up horizons for attracting more of the same "type" of feeling.

The law of attraction in its traditional sense (affirmations) is an illusion that leads to failure. The Law of Attraction in its profound sense (psychological harmony through meditation) is a science that leads to success.

🎙️ "Stop repeating words you don't believe. Success will not come from telling yourself you are successful, but from reaching a state of peace of mind (through meditation) that makes failure stop chasing you."

The True Secret, which distinguishes between fulfilled desire and deadly desire. The difference between a person who wished and arrived (like the greats of history) and a person who wished and failed, is not in the "power of the wish", but in the "type of energy".

The difference between someone who wished and succeeded and someone who wished and failed is that the first possessed the wish in his heart and dispensed with it in his mind, while the second imprisoned his mind in the wish and his heart remained afraid of losing it

Historically successful people have reached a state of "quiet certainty" that their goals will be achieved as a result of their work. This certainty makes them work with coolness (and this is where meditation comes in to reach this stillness).

* The failed wannabe keeps screaming affirmations because deep down he is suspicious. The noise of words is an attempt to cover the voice of inner doubt

Examples of people over time who used the real law of attraction without knowing it and recommended their dream

History is full of characters who achieved the "impossible" not only through hard work, but through their possession of quiet certainty, which is the true essence of the Law of Attraction. These people did not repeat affirmations in front of the mirror, but rather "lived" their dreams in their minds as a reality before they came true.

1. Muhammad Ali Clay (The Power of "I Am the Greatest")

Before becoming a world champion, Muhammad Ali would shout to everyone: "I am the greatest" (I am the greatest).

* How do I use the law? His cry was not a "wish" or a "please," but an announcement of identity. He was not convincing himself, but rather programming his reality.

* The secret: He was imagining the details of the match and how his opponent would fall in a certain round. This "mental perception" made him enter the ring with deadly coldness, because the match for his mind had already been played and he had won it.

2. Jim Carrey ($10 million check)

Before becoming an international star, Jim Carrey was a poor and obscure actor.

* How do I use the law? He wrote himself a "check" for $10 million for "representative services" and its due date several years later, which he kept in his wallet.

* The secret: He wasn't satisfied with the check, he was driving his old car up a hill in Hollywood and imagining directors begging him to work with them. This sense of entitlement made him pursue it quietly and steadily until he got an offer for the movie "Dumb and Dumber" for exactly the same amount written in the check!

All of these great people shared three qualities that you mentioned intelligently:

* Complete clarity: seeing the goal as if it happened now.

* Panic non-attachment: working hard but with "nerve coldness" (cancellation of reverse effort).

* Identity: Act as if they are successful before they see success in their own hands

Using the Law of Attraction to heal incurable diseases

Healing through the mind is one of the most exciting aspects of the Law of Attraction and Meditation. These people were not satisfied with wishing, but rather "abolished the image of illness" from their subconscious minds and replaced it with the image of "complete health", allowing their bodies to activate self-healing abilities.

Here are amazing examples of people who defeated the medical impossible:

2. Dr. Joe Despenza (Dr. Joe Dispenza)

Before becoming a famous scientist, Joe was hit by a truck during a bike race, shattering 6 vertebrae in his spine. Surgeons unanimously agreed that metal rod implantation was necessary, otherwise he would become permanently paralyzed.

* How do I use the law? Joe decided to refuse the operation and trust his body's "innate intelligence." He spent two hours a day in deep meditation, mentally reconstructing his paragraphs, paragraph by paragraph.

* Secret: He discovered that when his mind wanders in fear or pain, it nullifies the healing effect. So learn "full presence of mind" (meditation).

* Result: Within 9 weeks, he fully recovered and returned to walking and living his life without any surgery, and has since devoted his life to teaching people how to heal themselves throu

gh meditation.

Anita Moorjani (Anita Moorjani)

Anita was diagnosed with cancer (lymphoma) and reached a very late stage, as tumors the size of lemons spread throughout her body. She fell into a coma and the doctors declared her clinically dead.

* How did you use the law? During her "near-death" experience, she realized that her illness was the result of an "extreme fear" of life and unworthiness (a cumulative law of reverse attraction).

* Secret: When she came back to life, her consciousness changed completely. She was no longer afraid of cancer, but felt absolute love for herself and the certainty that she was a "true essence" that did not get sick.

* Result: Within a few weeks, the tumors completely disappeared from her body without a medical explanation, and she now confirms that it was a "change of consciousness" that suddenly changed the chemical environment of her body.

It's not magic, it's neurophysiology:

* Stopping cortisol: The panicked desire to heal secretes stress hormones that prevent the immune system from working.

* "Relaxation Response" State: Through meditation and quiet acceptance, the body enters a "parasympathetic" state (Parasympathetic), the only state in which the body can repair its cells and destroy tumors.

* Reprogramming: The subconscious mind controls the body's involuntary functions. When you "see" yourself healthy and believe it with certainty (without stress), the subconscious mind begins to issue chemical commands to heal.

> "These people did not heal because they strongly 'wish' for healing, but because they stopped struggling with illness and quietly accepted the life force within them.. They extinguished the fire of fear with meditation, and the healing energy was ignited."

That's stories are the "conclusive proof" to confirm that the Law of Reverse Attraction is the only obstacle to miracles

Examples of real people who failed using the law of reverse voltage (the law of failure) mentioned in history

History not only immortalizes successful people, but is full of tragic stories of people who possessed talent and intelligence, but whose "burning desire" and pathological attachment to the result (the law of reverse effort) led them to disastrous endings.

1. Edgar Allan Poe (The Anxiety-Shattered Genius)

The famous poet and writer had a unique talent, but he was a living example of the "reverse effort."

* Failure: He sought financial success and literary recognition with panic and intense need. This constant anxiety caused him to become overwhelmed with stress, which led him to make destructive financial and personal decisions.

* The secret: Whenever he tried to "hold" stability, he ran away from it due to his disturbed energy, and died alone and poor in the street. He "wanted" success so much that he stifled his creativity with fear of poverty.

2. Vincent van Gogh (The Impossible Acceptance Chase)

Van Gogh only sold one painting during his lifetime, and the reason was not a lack of talent, but the "energy of need" that was evident in his dealings with society and its merchants.

* Failure: He desperately wanted to be understood and loved, but his emotional tension and intensity resulting from the "desire for acceptance" alienated everyone from him.

* The secret: He did the law of reverse effort; as "hungry" as he was for love and appreciation, he got rejection and loneliness. He did not achieve success until after his death, that is, when he "stopped" trying and chasing.

Howard Hughes (Prisoner of Perfection and Control)

The richest man in the world of his time, pilot, director and producer.

* Failure: He had an obsession with control and complete success. The intense desire to "avoid error" led him to obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).

* The secret: Because he wanted so much to protect his success and health, he ended up imprisoned in a dark room, afraid of germs, completely isolated from the world. He pursued "security" so much that he created for himself a "prison" of fear.

* These people did not fail because they lacked their potential, but because they gave their goals "superior importance" (Excess Importance).

* This importance created "energy pressure" that caused them to self-destruct.

Warning ⚠️

"Don't be like Van Gogh, who was killed by the desire for love, nor like Hughes, who was imprisoned by the obsession with security". Make your purpose in life like a seed you plant in the earth; water it with quiet work, then turn away from it and let nature (the universe) take over its germination. Excessive interference with fear and tension spoils the seed before it comes to light."

Examples of healthy people who were destroyed by the law of reverse effort and are healthy

1. Nikolai Gogol (the writer killed by "fear of disease")

Considered one of the greatest Russian writers, Gogol was originally healthy-bodied, but suffered from a pathological "phobia of disease" (Hypochondria).

* Reverse Effort: His intense desire to be "pure", sacred, and healthy made him focus madly on every simple prick of pain. He began to abstain from food for fear of contamination or illness.

* The result: From thinking so much about death and its approach, his body actually began to collapse. He entered a state of murderous asceticism and refused treatment, dying at the age of 42 while fasting, not because of an obvious organic disease, but because his "mind" had decided his body was finished.

* The intense desire to "not get sick" is actually a focus on being sick.

* The subconscious mind does not know the "tool of negation"; when you say "I don't want to get sick", it hears "sickness.. Disease.

* The solution through meditation: is to reach a state of "neutrality." Do not be afraid of illness and do not chase health with panic. Just "be" at rest, and let your body work with its innate intelligence.

Final advice :

Health is not about chasing medications or obsessing over symptoms, but about sometimes forgetting the body and being preoccupied with the beauty of life. The more you fear for your body, the more likely it is to betray you. Relax, stress is the real disease."

The conclusion

The reverse effort is the most dangerous enemy of man, and the strange thing is that man is the one who creates this reverse effort himself

This is the "tragic paradox" of human nature: man is both the jailer and the prisoner.

We possess the most powerful tool in the universe (the mind),this tool turns into a weapon that bounces back to our chests.

The great secret that failure hides from you is that you 'want more than you should'.

Success is not a reward for suffering, sacrifice, and running after goals with the eagerness of a drowning person, but rather it is a natural result of the person who decided to calm down, breathe, and work perfectly as if he were actually successful.

In order to own the world, you must first stop begging for it through your paranoid desires. Meditate.. Relax.. And start working coolly; Only there does the true law of attraction begin to work to your advantage."

In love, as in money and success: whoever begs for acceptance gets charity, and whoever is self-sufficient everyone comes to him voluntarily. Humiliating is love's greatest enemy,

The reason for the failure of every person who tries hard to reach his dream is to activate the Law of Reverse Effort. The solution to getting rid of reverse effort is to accept where you are now and strive to learn and change with patience and calm. This is the essence of Satisfaction

emalak

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